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Les Dawson lives on.

To be fair, it seems clear why you didn't make more effort, she does sound like an old bag.

Good luck at Christmas....all sitting there in your party hats.
I do love her, but she was a nightmare last Xmas. They used to have big family get-togethers, but as dad's got less able mentally and physically it's ended up just being me, Mrs 12th and our daughter the last two years. This means I've spent almost all of the last two Christmas mornings cooking, and last year she'd got a bag on and barely spoke until the desserts were served. When she moved from front room to dining room, you could feel the temperature drop by 10°. Mrs 12th tells me we're not babysitting them this coming Christmas, which is music to my ears.

I do loads for them, and Mrs 12th massive amounts. But hey, it seems OK in some quarters (i.e. not you!) to judge me because I didn't telepathically understand I was supposed to do more than she was asking this time...
 
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Thanks for the understanding implicit in the likes, chaps.

Over the last year I've set up their powers of attorney, pruned back the entire garden, sorted out problems with their soundbar, helped shift dad's hospital bed downstairs, helped them roll over their ISAs (which took a couple of hours as they've forgotten every password under the sun), sorted out their Bibo water filter being cleaned - the list goes on. And this is on top of dealing with my own dad's shopping, medical needs etc etc. I don't think I'm unreasonable in feeling a little hard done by under the circumstances.
 
TESCO.
Noticed a while back, but confirmed to me today (in a big Tesco Extra):
They no longer sell 6 pint milk 🤬
You don't have to be a cynic to know why.
Same reason they've stopped selling 1kg Stockwell soft spread - both saved the customer money over the next sizes down.

I read that the top boss was on 10 million this year.
"Every little helps".
 
Anybody that participates in what's become known as 'virtue signalling'.
Often intelligent people* - just trying to fit in (with other like-minded sheep) by appearing to be nice people.
Sadly, their intelligence stops just short of them understanding the very real harm that they're doing.

* Mostly, but not exclusively, begin sentences with the word 'So'.
 
Following on from the “so” reply:

The general misuse of the English language, much of it imported from across The Pond. For example, gift, you don’t gift something to someone else, you give it. Another misuse that really annoys me, is the way unique is used now. Something is not a bit unique, so unique or very unique, it is either unique, or it is not, there are no degrees of uniqueness.

I’ll stop there, if I try to go through the lot, I’ll wear a hole in my iPad screen!
To this, I would like to add ‘vintage’. A new product is not ‘vintage’ because it is designed to, superficially, resemble an old item also, something is not ‘vintage’, just because it is a few years old…
 
by appearing to be nice people.
Seem to be plenty in the public eye who now seem intent on being as (how shall I word it?) unsymapthetic as possible. I think I'd have a slight preference for exaggerating ones niceness to broadcasting every horrible thought that occurs - but obviously simple honesty would be preferable. But I fear we might be leaning towards the political.
 
Anybody that participates in what's become known as 'virtue signalling'.
Often intelligent people* - just trying to fit in (with other like-minded sheep) by appearing to be nice people.
Sadly, their intelligence stops just short of them understanding the very real harm that they're doing.

* Mostly, but not exclusively, begin sentences with the word 'So'.
And this is a perfect example of virtue signalling 😁
 
...obviously simple honesty would be preferable.
It really would be.
If only.

I've been told I'm too honest - which is surely a contradiction in terms.
I'd never be unkind to anyone, but otherwise, what does it mean to be too honest?

(True, honesty has cost me in employment (and even once in a job interview), where obvious BS needed to be corrected - but I didn't want to work for those dishonest employers anyway).
 
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