hanman,
I have the Onkyo 609 and have fitted banana plugs that are similar to the ones in your first picture and they fit nicely, not too tight and not loose, infact they are a perfect fit...here is a link to the ones i'm using:
http://www.thatcable.com/product/4mm-Banana-Plugs
As long as the plugs are 4mm they should fit nicely but the ones in your second picture look like they are too thin to fit the amps speaker connections, are they 4mm plugs? With regards to your speaker cable you will struggle with the types of banana plugs you have in your pics as the plastic needs to go over the cable for the connection and that sort of plug will only support cable of 5mm or under in most cases.
If you look at the ones i bought you have two ways of connecting the speaker cable, the conventional way from the bottom of the plug or from the side which for you may be the answer as you don't have to feed the speaker cable through the banana plug so it should support your cable size plus they will definately fit the amp, i can assure you of that, and are of good quality.
You need to look a little more carefully at what you are buying, pay a little extra and get proper 4mm plugs with a dual connection like mine or search for 4mm plugs that accept 6mm speaker cable like these:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/HDinterconnects-Professional-speaker-connectors-Bananna/dp/B002N2F1SE/ref=sr_1_7?ie=UTF8&qid=1334270456&sr=8-7
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Quality-Banana-Speaker-Connections-ALL/dp/B0040RZQ3U/ref=sr_1_8?ie=UTF8&qid=1334270456&sr=8-8
These ones support 7mm speaker cable and are similar to the ones i have, you pay extra for the privelage however!
I noticed after a quick look that my plugs are currently out of stock but a good alternative can be found here:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Banana-Speaker-connections-CABLES-ALL/dp/B0029629WK/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1334270456&sr=8-5
http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/8-x-Gold-Banana-Plugs-4mm-Speaker-connector-amp-8pk-/220802713354?pt=UK_Computing_CablesConnectors_RL&hash=item3368de070a
If it were me i would go for either of the 7mm ones i provided links to and sell the ones you have already purchased on ebay, oh by the way the ones i linked to on ebay (above) are also plugs that support 7mm cable.
Hope all that is of some help to you.