In my kitchen system I have two Tannoy TS12 subwoofers - I understand that the OP currently has one Tannoy TS12, is that right? They are currently also acting as speaker stands for my Eltax Shine 8 front loudspeakers, details of those
here. Certainly, since I increased from one to two subwoofers in the kitchen, there is absolutely no shortage of power, and yes, I reduced the subwoofer level setting in the amplifier from -7.5dB to about -10dB, so that the overall volume produced by the two is roughly the same as had been produced by the single subwoofer. The Tannoy subwoofers cost about £400 each. Yet, I must concede that the single SVS PC12-Plus in the parlour (cost about £1,250) is slightly more powerful, and somewhat deeper. For lack of floor space it would be difficult to get a single, quite large, subwoofer in the kitchen, so I will be sticking with my two Tannoy TS12s even if I win the lottery (please!) When people listen to the kitchen system nobody mentions any lack of power or depth, and only in careful comparison with the parlour system does the greater ability of the parlour system become apparent.
One factor which may be relevant and which has not been touched on so far in this thread is whether the OP's other speakers in his surround-sound system are small or large. If they are are small, then of course the subwoofer has to work harder, because the low frequencies of all the satellite speakers have to go to the subwoofer. I'm lucky in that in all three of my rooms, the L/R front speakers and the L/R surround speakers are all designated as large (all roughly 90 cm tall) so that in all three rooms, the subwoofers have to produce the dedicated LFE signals, plus the low-frequency signals of only the centre and surround back speakers (and, in the parlour only, the front wides and front highs). So my subwoofers are not having to work too hard, because the main front pairs and the surround pairs of loudspeakers in all my rooms are large. So the subwoofers, not overworked, are happy. If all my satellite speakers were small, then the subwoofers would have to work harder.