Even if they done you wrong, you forgive. If you let it eat you up, you'll never be able to reconcile the past. Today things are amicable with my ex and my daughter and her kids bring light into my life. And my second wife, coming up to 20 years of marriage (touch wood!), I would have not met her had I not been divorced. It's weird how life seems to work out in the end
yes it´s the truth, and we learn as we live as priorities change with age, one might not be capable to live anymore with our companion but children will always be first , we have to keep a good relation with their mother and always, there were good times , one shouldn´t keep hanging in the worst part of the relation as it is only natural ,no relation is perfect all the time ,my last relation will be forever , when i was 50 i was in a very dark place ,that´s when i met my companion for life, sometimes we have the luck of knowing such a person and the cherry on top ,she loves music as i do and the taste it´s almost the same, Music can heal deep wounds, to me is the same as an adiction but a good one, has i remenber when 11 i started to hear music in a daily basis, and the Beatles were the first band i love to hear ,remenber still playing both red and blue doble Lp´s when my father was working as he couldn´t be home before 4.30 in the afternoon ,he wouldn´t let me touch is stereo so i did it anyway and not too loud as some neighboor could coment with him hearing loud music at work hours.