ive got a Harman Kardon AVR 4500 i just want to play a dvd in surround sound without looking at the instruction manual the instruction manual seems so varst there seems to be no quick start set up in the manual i carnt even get the dvd to work its all set up right any basic help would be appriciated just to get the thing working on a basic level for those of you have looked at my previous post i have now got the remote control so hopefully should get it working with all your help please