shadders said:
ellisdj said:
Shadders if we are in agreement that negative threads like this one and the last 10 before it that push people away from using the forum are bad in general
Therefore when I say if the opposite happened in the thread - i.e. there can be some negativity and disagreement but overall some positivity to come from it for the person who started it and people in it do you think there would be anyone that would be pushed away from using the forum as a result of it?
Dont twist the answer please
Hi,
I do not see any thread as being negative or positive. People express their opinions, that is all.
If someone interprets scientific/engineering statements disputing that cables make a difference, as being negative, then that is up to them. No one can dispute that is how they feel.
Conversely, if someone sees the comments as being positive, then again, that is up to them.
If any comment which is not rude, but deemed negative since it disagrees with their approach, is stated as the cause that they dislike the forum, and they then leave - nothing can be done about this. If they do not like what they are hearing - then as long as it meets the forum rules - it is their decision. The person who is leaving cannot hold others responsible.
There is no negative or positive in the discussion. It is just an open discussion - that is all.
Regards,
Shadders.
Shadders if that is all it was there would be no issue - but thats not what happens.
As soon as someone steps in and says anything positive they are called an idiot or a fool or a "fuckwit" - but you dont see that as a negative thread
You dont see someone openly saying I dont feel like I want to participate on this forum anymore because of comments said as being a negative thread
Come off it - look at the acoustic treatment thread - no insults no arguements, disagreements in best practice but noone wanting to leave the forum as a result - I would say that is a positive thread that engaged people and made them want to try things and get better sound. That was clearly a positive thread
Even then you have someone oldphart that tried ruin it with a negative completely uncecessary post that was irrelevant but was just an attempt to trigger someone in an arguement to kill the positivity of the thread. Why would anyone do that? They do that a lot.
So there are clearly positive and negative threads - its nothing to do with positive and negative information coming out of them its to someone reading it and about how they feel as a result of reading it. Are they inspired to do better or do they want to Alt F4 and never come back.
Nothing good comes from a thread that makes people want to go elsewhere - and its not the topic or information in the thread thay causes that.