Apologies again for the delay in giving my thoughts.
I hadn't read any description of the film before watching. For some reason, I had it in my head that this was going to be a Japanese film about a boy brought up by dogs, a bit like Mowgli! So it was a rather different film than I had expected and I thought a really good one.
It makes a nice change to watch a film about these sort of sensitive childhood issues without it being relentlessly depressing and with what I saw as a generally optimistic ending. I'm not sure that I found it as laugh out loud funny as BBB did. I thought the modelling / smashing through the glass scene was very funny. I found the penis in a bottle scene to obviously have a comic element but also to be a neat character summary of some of Ingemar's problems: he was clearly an outsider who wanted to fit in, did silly things to try and impress others, got the blame for it from authority figures and stressed out his mum, with her reaction causing a bit of a vicious cycle.
I thought the contrast between his city life and his rural life was interesting. As a character he remained much the same, but his setting accommodated him better. For example, as with the bottle he was just as ready to be crazy and join in the boxing when untrained or jump in the makeshift cablecar, but it all went down much better with other people in the rural setting.
I think the real difference in setting came down to information, which seemed to be the key issue in the film to me. People around Ingemar tried to keep the truth from him in the city, in particular about his mother's illness. Whilst this was no doubt well intentioned it clearly did more harm than good. The rural setting seemed like such a small community that no one could really have a secret: everyone knew the girl was a boy but tolerated it, everyone knew the sculpter was a perv but got on with it, everyone was mean to guy on the roof but clearly really were fond of him. When Ingemar just had to be himself and have others accept that, he thrived, forming close bonds with Gunnar, the girl from the factory and even the old woman he stays with.
Having said that, Gunnar did join in the lie to him about the dog. Gunnar did at least give him time and space to work out these issues for himself.
I was rather troubled by the relationship with the woman from the factory. The film being made in the 80s, it would have been clear even then the filmmakers were presenting somewhat concerning behaviour on her part. I guess it was just another character in the village who enabled Ingemar to behave in a natural way and get out some adolescent emotions and urges in what in fact was a relatively safe way, given that she did not in fact have any intention of taking advantage. I also found the portrayal of pubescent tomboy nudity a little troubling: if she had been a feminine, traditionally attractive 14 year old would that have been acceptable to show?
I thought the segues to space shots / Laika narrations were interesting. Obviously there must be a link between the two dogs but I don't think it's terribly mind blowing. I guess Ingemar's true thoughts that 'it could be worse' change over the course of the film, from not really believing that and having no personal experience of something worse, therefore projecting onto a non-human that he doesn't have personal experience of, to genuinely contextualising his own negative thoughts through seeing other's pain and suffering (eg the death of Arvidsson) and having gained some perspective on his problems.
Thanks BBB, I enjoyed the film very much.