I would advise you to ignore book shelves advice, despite rumour they do not act as proper acoustic treatment. They actually do little to nothing
A book shelf even if you randonly assigned the books to be in and out in terms of placement you would need all hard plastic books as the paper variety would more than likely absorb high freq more than it reflected them - this is the opposite of what you are trying to achieve. This is nonsense advice and proved clearly in this video.
All sound enthusiasts should watch the real traps videos there is a lot to learn on room acoustics, including how much treatment you actually need in a room to make a real difference. Another great source is Acoustic Fields you tube videos - the chap there has made lots of useful short easy to understand videos
Back to the op - I have a fair amount of experience with room treatments installed - including some testing and employment of diffusion.
Diffusion is the killer product that elevates things but it must be used properly - in the right place and with the correct distance from the listening position. Its also personal pref.
However I would start with your absorption panels - install them first and get a handle on things. Installing them on the side walls and rear wall directly behind the listening position should help tighten / focus the sound greatly and improve imaging especially off to the sides of the speakers. Madonna Like a Payer has lots of off to the side sounds - drummer off to the right, full choir off to the left etc.
You should get improved bass as well but dont expect miracles from 2 bass traps which is essentially what you have bought so far. I think its normally advised to work on bass first which might be why 2 soffit traps were recommended to you. If you have corners free tri traps work well and are quite room friendly, you dont really notice them but soffits and monsters are more effective to a lower range. Use these if you want max performance for your money and can loose the space.
I would then test with the diffusion panels to see what you like, you can use tape folded over to initially place them up on walls but it wont hold for long, adhesive velcro works better but can pull paint when you peel it off. Or just rest them on anything you can they are very light - the cardboard boxes they come in spring to mind
You will see some people using diffusion directly to the sides of speakers - real traps and gik advice use absorption directly to the sides early reflection then use diffusion
I feel on the ceiling is a good place to use diffusion because think about it - the ceiling is usually a very bare space normally all flat surface, compared to the floor and walls where there is furniture etc that will break up sound waves to a degree.
Duffusion turns the reflection from a negative to a positive - the brain can detect where a sound reflection comes from so a reflection off a bare wall tells the brain the wall is there. A diffused sound reflection tricks the brain as it cannot locate the source - thats how diffusion can make a room sound larger - this is my understanding of the theory basics.
Video showing what I am getting at
However another great place to test will be directly in front of your monster panels I would definately try that or just to the sides of them. I really liked this as its a best of both worlds scenario - a lot of studios use diffusion right across the back wall - however this is difficult at home with limited space because its probably a spot you want absoprtion also.
Also front wall as mentioned in between the speakers lots of people use diffusion here - me included.