Big Aura
Well-known member
it's quite simple:
FIRST: you pick something she likes and costs money (holidays, shoes, vintage cheese), and then you explain that this is something you like. She might not be able to appreciate the difference in speakers, but then you can't apprecate the difference between some Zara high heels and some Louboutins, but that doesn't make the Zara heels the equal of the red-soles.
SECOND: Point out how rarely you treat yourself (it helps if it's true, too!)
THIRD: Budget to gather the cash without incurring hardship (I buy some a/v or hi-fi from my annual bonus).
FOURTH: Buy when there's a sale and/or haggle hard. My wife loves a bargain....
FIRST: you pick something she likes and costs money (holidays, shoes, vintage cheese), and then you explain that this is something you like. She might not be able to appreciate the difference in speakers, but then you can't apprecate the difference between some Zara high heels and some Louboutins, but that doesn't make the Zara heels the equal of the red-soles.
SECOND: Point out how rarely you treat yourself (it helps if it's true, too!)
THIRD: Budget to gather the cash without incurring hardship (I buy some a/v or hi-fi from my annual bonus).
FOURTH: Buy when there's a sale and/or haggle hard. My wife loves a bargain....