Diets where you exclude groups of food are difficult to be sustainable in the long run. I have lost 10.6kg in 13 months and am maintaining my weight. I put a post on Facebook in December for what I did to achieve my goals. I'll copy paste it here (lost a bit more since the post and another half inch off my waist) :
IT'S DISCIPLINE THAT COUNTS
Many people have asked me tips to losing weight. I can only talk about my experience that worked for me, hopefully this will help others.
Due to poor eating habits and relatively sedentary lifestyle, I was at my heaviest last Christmas. When size 34 trousers started to become tight, I knew I had to do something because statistically, due to my ethnicity, I was at a greatly increased risk of developing Diabetes. I needed a lifestyle change that was sustainable in the long run.
Luckily, I came across The Health Guys and met Sam Archer and Rhys Derbyshire in January who helped me change my mindset towards healthy living. I call them health coaches instead of fitness trainers. A friend joined with me which helped me stay regular during the initial phase when the body tries to find excuses to not go. This helped me set a routine up for the first time of regular exercise which I struggled with all my life. Early morning class ensured I got my exercise out of the way before the family started to wake up, so not compromising on precious family time.
The greatest benefit I found was with diet. Sam and Rhys helped me understand healthy eating with focus on nutrition and calories without excluding any food types. I installed MyFitnessPal app and used it regularly for 50 days, logging every single meal I ate. This helped me understand how to choose the right food without compromising on selections. If I fancied something high calorie for dinner, I would compensate by having light lunch. My aim was to balance things out over a weekly period, to be able to accommodate eating out with friends and family. Thanks to my wife and her unique ideas, I have been able to have healthy dinners regularly with lot of salad and greens.
I tried to maintain an active lifestyle by going out on weekends, playing cricket regularly and long distance cycling as much as possible.
I started feeling more energetic and was able to cycle faster and further which proved to me that I was getting healthier. I was able to cycle 100km in a single day in April and have plans to go further in 2020. What I realised is that the human body is capable of a lot more endurance than we think. It is limited by our mindset. Once we overcome this limitation, we can achieve a lot more. For example, I cannot cycle on an exercise bike for more than 20 minutes but can ride continuously on the road for couple of hours without stopping easily, perhaps more. My mind actively stops me from cycling on exercise bike, so its a constant fight with my mind.
I had a target weight in mind by the year end, which I got to by the end of November. I am now 9.6kg lighter and have taken 3 inches off my waist. I feel much healthier and am much happier. It's the discipline in sticking to regular exercise and healthy eating that has helped me immensely.
I don't like to make new year resolutions. My aim is to maintain healthy lifestyle and focus more on mental wellbeing by removing stress in the coming years.