I will try and start the discussion off.
When I finished the film, I felt a bit dumbstruck, because the film itself was pretty grim, and I was unsure how the rest of the members would react.
But now that I have read a bit more, and thought a bit more about the film, I see that there is more to it.
This is a film of a book, written from listening to the trials of some of the key players involved in what was one of the most unpleasant conflicts in modern history. Consequently althought it is "fictional", it is not "overly fictional" And yet the film and book are structured differently. The film starts at the very beginning, and finishes with Samira realising that by keeping the baby, she has a chance to make good things come, from all the evil that went on. So in simple terms, it is the storyline of forgiveness and hope, coming from unspeakable evil. In contrast the book starts with Samira already escaped to Sweden, and presumably uses flashbacks of the past events, to support her gradual change of mind from abortion (foetus too old), via adoption, to eventually wanting to keep the baby, and bring hope. I wonder if that is a more interesting structure to tell this story, rather than the film structure.
For a while, I had not realised that Samira had escaped to Sweden, which makes me question whether a couple of minutes of film could have been added, making clear the act of fleeing.
I don't think the portrayal of many acts in the film, could have been anything but grim. And they do bring out the soldiers inhumanity to innocent people caught up in the conflight. And yet we should not be surprised - One of the first acts of propagandists, is to portray the opposing tribe/village/country as populated by beings no better than animals. It quickly becomes easy to persuade soldiers to kill/torture/rape the other side, because in the soldiers minds they are not dealing with people, but sub-humans. This has been the practice of propagandists for centuries, and shows no sign of disappearing.
Well that starts things of, hopefully one of you will have something to add. *bye*