Apology to Gel

[MajorFubar]

Posting here because this is where you normally hang out. Sorry for my outburst to you on the locked thread. I was not in a good place. And seeing that my depression often manifests itself in forum rants to start with, coming on here within days of my mum's death was probably not the wisest of ideas. I can't make you accept my apology, but consider it proferred anyway.

 

[bigboss]

Hi Major. Hope you're feeling better. I'm sorry about your loss.

Gel's response to your bereavement wasn't appropriate, but he hasn't been keeping well either. In fact, he left this forum that day. I've alerted him to this thread. Hopefully he will return and everyone can put the past in the past.

 

[bigboss]

Gel's response:

Hi BB, can you respond for me and apologies too from me and say apology from him accepted too. I have grievances with lots of other members too though and just can't cope with the stress. I am better of away from the WHF forum. Cheers Gel.

 

[MajorFubar]

Thanks for passing the message on, BB. I hope in time he can find his way back here.

 

[buzz_lightclick]

I did wonder where Gel had gone, sad to read he's left the forum.

Good that things have been sorted out above.

 

[Series1boy]

I hope Gel is ok. Please send my regards to him BB.

 

[Alantiggger]

I like 'gel' shame on this man major fubar, away to the stocks with im , t'morrow we throw old fruits and veg at im, that'll show im...

 

[MajorFubar]

It wasn't me who threw the first punch, it was Gel, straight out of nowhere in a thread where his only post thus far was the unprovoked personal attack on me. I would normally try to rise above it particularly with Gel because he has known mental issues, but this time, fuelled partly by the grief of suddenly losing my mum days earlier, I let him have it back and then some. That didn't go down well with Gel, so he reported me. My apology however was/is still genuine. You don't have to be the instigator of an argument to re-offer the hand of friendship afterwards, hence this thread.

 

[Andy Madden]

Hi all,
just FYIs, I'm going to lock this thread now. Both parties have apologised and I think it would be better for all concerned if we moved on.

cheers