al7478:1 - Do'nt particularly like Itunes as a library and player. Mainly because I like the comfort of certain things I get by default in WMP like seeing the pane of things that are playing. It seems there is a version of WMP for Macs. Would I suffer any real performance hit using that? Would I still have the benefit of a Mac's aparently superior handling of audio? I would of course have a good play with front row to see if I like that (but can that only be used on a TV or is it ok just on the monitor?
Not sure what you mean by "seeing the pane of things that are playing" - do you mean the Cover Art? In which case, the Cover Flow view will show you this:
al7478:2 - Could i use any old monitor, mouse and keyboard?
Yes, any USB keyboard / mouse and you'll need the appropriate MiniDiplay port adapter for the monitor (i.e. either the VGA or DVI adaptor depending what the monitor has).
al7478:3 - Is there any benefit to me to get the one with Snow Leopard server? I'm hoping not.
Definitely not for your use.
al7478:4 - Anyway of finding a much smaller Apple monitor? Do they even exist? I'll have a Google. EDIT - No seems the answer. Still, not unsurmountable.
The Apple Monitors are lovely but very expensive. I use a Dell monitor myself - 24" 1080p monitor for £300 instead of £650. Okay, it's not LED, but it still looks lovely!
al7478:5 - I would need their adaptor to get the AVI optical cable into the Mini would'nt I? Does this adaptor require its own power supply (probably hardly a deal breaker).
For the Mini, you just need a Mini TOSLink cable to standard TOSlink I would have thought? Like this:
al7478:Would
this one be swift enough, as I would also have to get any necassary adaptors, almost certainly the remote (but I might hang fire), and probably iWork. And do'nt forget a monitor, though I could hang on to mine for a bit at least I think.
Wouldn't bother with iWork - get Microsoft Office instead. iWork is okay, but if you're using it with Office files you'll constantly need to convert them which doesn't always work etc. etc.
al7478:Can anyone tell this thicko who does'nt understand the blurb on the website what FileMaker is?
FileMaker makes databases. You don't need it.