I really don't see why this is regarded as a problem. Take a look at the NAD3020 circuit diagram, a widely respected amp I think you would agree, and all that they do is short the top end of each volume control pot together using a switch. The vol pots are fed via 1k resistors from each of the inputs, except of course the phono input where there is a pre-amp with RIAA correction. The outputs of the preamps both go to the top of the vol controls when switched in so the obvious solution is to fit a switch (single pole will do) so that the two pots may be connected together for mono operation. It would be so easy for designers to included this feature in the product and the cost of doing so is minimal so I don't understand why it is not universally available.
If you use a seperate pre-amp it is even easier but make sure that any shorting link is applied via say, a 1k resistor, so that the preamp output is not affected by loading. The output will probably have significant impedance designed in so a simple short may be all that is needed but a 1k resistor would be a reasonable choice and would cause little attenuation.
Obviously not everyone will be able to do this but I am sure that there is a repair shop somewhere that could do it for you.
Just a thought.
If you use a seperate pre-amp it is even easier but make sure that any shorting link is applied via say, a 1k resistor, so that the preamp output is not affected by loading. The output will probably have significant impedance designed in so a simple short may be all that is needed but a 1k resistor would be a reasonable choice and would cause little attenuation.
Obviously not everyone will be able to do this but I am sure that there is a repair shop somewhere that could do it for you.
Just a thought.