Just talk to me, lets forget about HIFI, nerdy questions most sane individuals would never ask in the first place. L e t s just talk flowers, motorbikes, holidays, jumping out of airoplanes for fun, diving in the maldives ...
I suspect that this would be a great place to meet a guy, for a lass. And you get to listen to Barry White in Hi Fidelity at the end of the night too, albeit sitting with a nerd.