Complete PITA. I've got some TaoTronics ones, some Sony ones and some JBL ones, all with touch control. Not only does random stuff happen when you're inserting them, depending on how long it takes to get them seated, but they all have different actions for volume, mute and next/previous track etc.
Also, none of them are any good; the bass response is terrible, possibly because they just don't fit that well. I think I need longer and/or firmer thingies on the ones that go inside your ear canal, but that means they don't fit in the charging box properly, or ones with bigger bits that sit just in the bit outside the ear canal, but finding something like that is difficult as the reviews never, really address this issue.
A lot of the time I just revert to my 20+ year old wired Sony ear buds (pre-in-ear ones), as they still sound great and I get good bass response from them.