Google and you will get a veritable plethora of comparisons, from which there is no definitive 'better' format. In the case you mention, both are at the same bit rate, so any difference is surely going to be minimal? However, from my experience, the more detailed a setup is the more likely you are to hear a difference. There are also people with 'golden ears' who hear differences better than others. I tested the wife with different bit rates and she got almost all correct. I did less well.
However, until recently I would have left it at that. But I now listen to most of my music through Spotify because to me it sounds fantastic. It often sounds better than Apple lossless. Yet the music on Spotify is streamed at an equivalent of 160kbps and for premium 320kbps. Having searched around for a reason I think it is due to the means Spotify use to compress its music files for streaming - Ogg Vorbis. Just like MP3 and AAC, if you google it you find loads of comparisons, which are unconclusive as to which is definitively the best.
So, in the end as you say, 'is it my ears?'. The answer is yes. To me Ogg Vorbis sounds the best, followed by Apple Lossless, followed by AAC and last is MP3. But that is to my ears and it is not definitive. You would think that it should be objective, comparing one format to another, but that would not appear to be the case. It actually appears to be subjective.
Which format is better is also not going to be definitive to anyone else, no matter how forceful they put forward their argument that such and such is better. In any case, since hearing Ogg Vorbis on Spotify I am less impressed with bit rate and more impressed with how well the album was recorded in the first place. That makes way more difference, to my ears. Oh and what kit you use.