Hi all. First of all, thank you very much for your many replies and many suggestions. I apologize if it sounds like I've not been willing to take any of the advice - and yes, re-reading the posts, it does sound very much like that.
In short, I just want my cake and to eat it too. A speaker that looks really nice, blends in with the decor, and sounds great too.
It's difficult to believe there is truly no way out other than either compromised sound, or just getting a micro hi-fi, or another ipod dock to fill my living space with music. Hence the many posts - I needed to see if approaching it from different angles would provide a way out.
I would like you to know I don't deliberately seek to rebut every piece of advice (well, maybe other than wanting to not face my neighbour's unit!).
1) I can't change the location of the walls and glass windows. I can't even convert the full glass windows into wall if I wanted to. Building regulations. That said, I wasn't ignoring your advice to put soft things and sofa around. My question was really more fundamental - is it the layout of the room (the shape of the room, where the walkway is, where the windows are etc) that will result in my having to compromise in sound? because if it is, then really, it is hopeless because I will never get good sound unless I sell the place and buy another. If it's just soft furnishings, that's fixable.
2) And yes, in Singapore, it's really frustrating to shop for systems because vendors
a) do NOT offer home auditions - one of them specifically told me so today that all the shops do NOT offer home auditions unless one is a regular customer, which of course I'm not, and
b) carry DIFFERENT brands. The Spendor showroom carries ONLY Sugden, Densen and an old Denon AVR. The KEF showroom carries ONLY Pioneer and NAD. The shop that carries Tannoys carries the whole lot of Marantz, Denon, Rotel, Cyrus, etc, but not the Sugden and Densen amps being demo-ed at Dynaudio and Spendor
c) assume you know everything there is to know about audio when you go in to enquire
So yes, it's been frustrating. But really, if it's about the shape of my space and where the walls and windows are that no amount of soft furnishing will help, I'll just give up an buy that micro hi-fi or a 2nd hand set within $1,000 and see if I can make small improvements to the sound through the months and years
Maybe that's all I really needed to know. Sorry to be sending everyone around in circles.