I have just set up all my speaker levels using a sound level meter and am having trouble with my sub (B&W PV1), as per the manual I set the volume to the 12 o'clock position on the sub, but when I ran the test tone the meter reading was only about 60 dbl, so I used the level setting in in my amp to increase it to 75 dbl. I watched a film last night and my room literally shook the first time the sub kicked in and was way to powerful and just noise rather then integrating with everything else (if that makes sense) the next minute my neighbour was round, as it was shaking pictures on his wall and the sub is about 7 metres away from our joing wall ! What am I doing wrong ?