Thanks all for your replies. In answer to queries: -
I'm reluctant to go down the Nad route, as I'd lose a lot of what I love about the arcam amp: The detail, soundstage, control, grip over the bass.
No, don't notice overbearing treble with all music, but anything with drums/cymbals or more dancy stuff really brings it out. Sibilance is the worst part.
2 developments today:
1. I bought some resisters from Maplin. Tried the 2.2 Ohm ones and yes, they definitely make a difference, reducing the tweeter output noticibly. Whether the overall balance of the sound is now worse or better, it's hard to say, but on some tracks I actually missed the more pronounced treble from before! I guess that is the problem with recordings varying so much. That said, using the 1 ohm resister might be a good compromise, which I expect will just take the slightest edge off. My other issue is that it feels like cheating in a weird sort of way.
2. I did some reading up on the Marantz NA7004, which is the source in my system. And lo and behold, Gramaphone's review does indeed mention a propensity for over eager treble and most relevant here: obvious and regularly distracting sibilance! Now, besides What hifi's brief remark that there is a slight hint of brightness, there doesnt seem to be much else to back this up. Nevertheless, it has made me wonder if perhaps this is the weak link in my system.
So...I was thinking, I could get a new, better streamer. OR, and this seems more plausible, would adding a good DAC, e.g. the Rega DAC improve matters markedly? NA7004 would feed directly into it optically. I am not overly sure how DAC's work in relation to sources, but would it effectively completely bypass the Marantz 7004's DAC and output, thus completely bypassing the Marantz sound, leaving the rega sound in its place?
Main concern is cost. This is spiralling now, and I feel like I might be going down a bad synergy road. WHF recomend attacking source + speakers for the Arcam A19 and here is me with rich sounding speakers, and entertaining a Riga DAC, which by all accounts is laid back and analogue sounding, albeit detailed. If that then produced a less than satisfactory sound, Id then be looking at forking out even more for new speakers! Ergh.